What are you supposed to believe when a person you really care about appears to be sincere but their actions don’t reflect what they say? Is everything supposed to be fine the next day when they act like nothing happened, not realizing what pain they’ve put you through? It’s amazing how much impact a person you care about can have on your feelings and how your day can be completely ruined by their actions. Life would be so much easier if you could ignore your feelings and forget about it. But it doesn’t matter what you do or where you go, it’s very hard to ignore your feelings. Going to sleep is one option; you might feel a bit better in the morning. But at some point, when their actions are reoccurring, you have to look down the road and realize that all might be well this week, but it will happen again.
What are you supposed to do when you really care about someone, but they put you through heartache? Do you just move on? Ask them to change? Or do you just accept it? Do the good things in the relationship trump the occasional heartache and frustration?